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News & Highlights...

• SoCalGroupTime Special Event - Long Beach Lunch Group Wed April 2
  
• Heads up: DenLA is NOT at Sanctuary this month; it's at a DTLA warehouse.
  
• DenLA Presents: Unite! The Official Dance and Play Party of Leather Weekend Fri March 28
  
• Red Hanky Club’s Fisting-101 workshop Sun April 6 
  
• ​KinkWareApparel.com graphic tees. Wear your kink for all to see!

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The Calendar

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MARCH 2025

Sat March 1
Moonburn All-Male Spank Party
Noon - 5:00 pm
New Location: Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
$15
email for more info: lamoonburn@aol.com
RSVP encouraged (but not required) at Sanctuary's website: sanctuarylax.com
The Moonburn Assn. has been having M/M spank parties for more than 25 years on the first Saturday of every month! We usually have more than 50 guys show up - guys of all ages, sizes, backgrounds, sexual orientations and levels of experience. Some come to spank, some come to get spanked, some come to watch and some come to meet other guys to arrange private sessions. Soft drinks, water, snacks served. Street parking only. 

• Webmaster's note: The city has ordered the removal of motor homes on this street and now parking in the neighborhood is much easier.
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Sat March 1
HorseMarket Downtown Los Angeles

SOLD OUT, but scroll up to the news and highlights at the top of the page for info on sloppy seconds tickets!
Check-in at 5:05 pm
The location will be revealed to Ticket holders a day before

Tickets: HorseMarketsf.com/Tickets (for Stallions available, Mare via Lottery)

BONUS: Horsemarket is giving away 2 free STALLION tickets for this event. Enter the drawing at horsemarketsf.com/mpla-2025

Mare or Stallion, what will it be? Made after the great German Fickstutenmarkt, this is the Original American Horse Market, where the blindfolded Mares never know who fucked them. (Or you can watch their Videos: merch.HorseMarektsf.com).

Webmaster's note: All mares are welcome to join the lottery for Saturday night, note that this is different from Friday night's event.)

Sun March 2
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party! 

Sun March 2
LAX Jax (jack off group)
5:00 pm -7:30 pm
DTLA 
laxjacks.com

Wed March 5
Drain Your Nut Presents: WeHo Wednesday (2 Groups!)
12:00 pm - 3:00 pm
8:00 pm - 11:00 pm
West Hollywood, CA
Tickets and info: www.drainyournut.com $27 early bird tickets (limited), $38 regular ticket
Drain Your Nut finally comes to WeHo for this Hump Day Fuck-a-thon! Join tons of hot and horny guys looking to get off in the heart of WeHo at a large space near La Cienega and Santa Monica. Fully equipped with tons of sex furniture, beds, padded floors, dark corners, and multiple levels. Complimentary clothes check, snacks and refreshments, plus lube, porn, and a great soundtrack for hot sex. No PNP, No Alcohol. You will not be let in if you are high or drunk, no exceptions. Poppers OK.
DAY GROUP 
For those guys who get dickstracted in the middle of the day and just need to fuck. Great for a lunch hour quickie or an early afternoon delight. Be that daytime slut you’ve always wanted to be!
NIGHT GROUP
The perfect mid week release. This hump day group connects guys who want to fuck in a group and get piggy. Drop a load or two, play with fuck buds, or meet someone new and let off some steam

Wed March 5
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
Canoga Park
Donation: $20 (Special student discount available). Pay at the door: cash, Venmo, Zelle, or CashApp.
Email: TheLairPlayground@gmail.com
IG:  The_Lair_Playground
Guys! The hottest new party in town is twice a week and getting it on in Canoga Park!  Hang with guys 18 yo to 55 yo. All types from twinks, jocks, bear, muscle and dads are welcome! Condoms, lube, and snacks provided. Free clothes check - larger lockers for rent. Come get down in a 1,500 square foot warehouse space and fuck to the beats of Dance/Top 40/House/Rave. Street parking only! Please be respectful of our business neighbors - exercise discretion when arriving and leaving event. Email us for address and password.

Thurs March 6
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys Upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party! 

Fri March 7
HorseMarket, The Valley Club Edition

San Fernando Valley/Canoga Park
Check-in starts at 7:05 pm
The location will be revealed to Ticket holders a day before
Tickets: HorseMarketsf.com/Tickets (for Stallions available, Mare via Lottery)

BONUS: Horsemarket is giving away 2 free STALLION tickets for this event. Enter the drawing at horsemarketsf.com/mpla-2025
Mare or Stallion, what will it be? Made after the great German Fickstutenmarkt, this is the Original American Horse Market, where the blindfolded Mares never know who fucked them. (Or you can watch their Videos: merch.HorseMarektsf.com).

Fri March 7

CumPlayLA
8:00 pm – 1:00 am
Sanctuary Studios new location: 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tiokets: cumplayla.com/events
$30 Online for Members
$35 for Non-Members (Cash or Card at door are ok)
This is a great, fun, no attitude party! Feel the beats while you slide into the large rooms and enjoy the event. Be sure to arrive early for all the hot action. This is an 18+ Event! ID required to enter. Entry includes free clothes check and gives you access to multiple large play rooms.

Fri March 7
The Lair's Freaky Friday
8:00 pm - midnight
Canoga Park
Donation: $20 (Special student discount available). Pay at the door: cash, Venmo, Zelle, or CashApp.
Email: TheLairPlayground@gmail.com
IG:  The_Lair_Playground
Guys! The hottest new party in town is twice a week and getting it on in Canoga Park!  Hang with guys 18 yo to 55 yo. All types from twinks, jocks, bear, muscle and dads are welcome! Condoms, lube, and snacks provided. Free clothes check - larger lockers for rent. Come get down in a 1,500 square foot warehouse space and fuck to the beats of Dance/Top 40/House/Rave. Street parking only! Please be respectful of our business neighbors - exercise discretion when arriving and leaving event. Email us for address and password.

Sat March 8 
HorseMarket, The Valley Club Edition

San Fernando Valley/Canoga Park
Check-in starts at 5:05 pm
The location will be revealed to Ticket holders a day before
Tickets: HorseMarketsf.com/Tickets (for Stallions available, Mare via Lottery)

BONUS: Horsemarket is giving away 2 free STALLION tickets for this event. Enter the drawing at horsemarketsf.com/mpla-2025
Mare or Stallion, what will it be? Made after the great German Fickstutenmarkt, this is the Original American Horse Market, where the blindfolded Mares never know who fucked them. (Or you can watch their Videos: merch.HorseMarektsf.com). 

Sun March 9
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm

(see details under March 2)

Wed March 12
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
(see details under March 5)

Thurs March 13
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight

(See details under March 6)

Fri March 14
The Lair's Freaky Friday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under March 7)

Fri March 14
Drain Your Nut Presents: Mouth Stuff
8:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Duarte, CA
Tickets and info: www.drainyournut.com $25 early bird tickets (limited), $35 regular ticket
If you're got an ORAL FIXATION come to the warehouse in Duarte for a night of side play. Makeout, stroke, and suck...anything but fucking butt. Use our couches, padded floor, beds and gloryholes to connect with and get off with other guys. This is a group for the orally obsessed to suck and milk each other to completion. Open wide! No PNP, No Alcohol. You will not be let in if you are high or drunk, no exceptions.Poppers OK.

Fri March 14

The Nook's No Holds Barred

10:00 pm - 3:00 am

DTLA

Twitter/X @thenookincla​

Sat March 15
Drain Your Nut : Two Events
Day Group 3:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Night Group 8:00 pm - 11:00pm
Duarte, CA (2 minutes from the 210 freeway)
Tickets and more info: www.drainyournut.com $25 early bird tickets (limited), $35 regular ticket, $50 double header ticket, $60 weekend pass
Drain Your Nut is a pop-up FUCKFEST that takes place in unique spaces in Southern California and attracts hot and horny guys who like fuck in a group setting with NO PNP. Multiple playrooms plus a big warehouse space with slings and glory holes. Projected porn, large play mattresses, fuck benches. Clothes check, bottled water, snacks, premium lubes, rubbers (for those who use them), and small clean-up towels provided. Easily accessible location for guys in the SFV, SGV and Inland Empire areas. Only 30 minutes from downtown LA. Free and easy parking on site. No PNP, No Alcohol. You will not be let in if you are high or drunk, no exceptions. Poppers OK.
DAY GROUP
A perfect spot for married/bi/DL & bear guys who enjoy fucking around with other men. First timers encouraged. All types are welcome at the fuckfest. Laid back vibe, casual daytime event for HORNY dudes looking to fuck.
NIGHT GROUP
Get piggy at this warehouse fuck party where leather & fetish gear is encouraged and sluts are celebrated. Slings, fuck benches, porn, and tons of horny guys ready for hot and sweaty group play. Gangbang orgy in an industrial warehouse. 

Sun March 16
Drain Your Nut - Bator Group
2:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Duarte, CA (2 minutes from the 210 freeway)
$25
Tickets and info: www.drainyournut.com
This is a group for bators: guys who like to stroke their cocks with other guys and bond as they build up intense sexual energy. No fucking allowed, this is for solo bating, or mutual touch, body contact. Bond with other guys while your cocks throb and you enjoy an extended bating session. Poppers OK. No Alcohol. No PNP. Free clothes check, plus premium lube, projected bator porn, clean up towels, and bottled water provided

Sun March 16
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under March 2)

Sun March 16
Red Hanky Club (fisting)
5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tickets $30 + $4.97 fee 
redhankyclub.com
Email info@redhankyclub.com 
Red Hanky Club meets the third Sunday each month. Bring your toys and lube and we’ll supply refreshments, slings, fuck benches and a great environment to play with your fellow pigs! A shower for touch-ups only is on site if you bring a towel and shower wand.

Sun March 16

LAX Jacks (Jack off club)

5:00 pm - 7:30 pm

DTLA

laxjacks.com

Tue March 18
LAX Jacks (Jack off club)
7:00 pm - 9:30 pm
DTLA
laxjacks.com

Tues March 18
CumUnion Los Angeles
8:00 pm - 2:00 am
Slammer 3688 Beverly Blvd
cumunion.com/?page_id=14871
Third Tuesday of every month Cruise your way along the suck-atorium or situate yourself within it. Try your luck – or someone else’s – in the slings, take a dip in the bathtub, get dirty in the watersports room, or get the luck of the dip in the dark room. You can also head out back for a smoke. There are mazes to explore and a video room. If you’re looking for sophistication, this not the place for you. But for some debauchery, you should check it out.

Wed March 19
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
(see details under March 5)

Thurs March 20
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(See details under March 6)

Fri March 21
LAX Jacks (Jack off club)
12:00 noon - 2:00 pm
DTLA
laxjacks.com

Fri March 21
SoCa Bondage Club Play Party
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
910 N La Cienega Blvd, Los Angeles
$20 for members of SoCal Men's Bondage, $25 for Non-Members
www.SoCaBondage.com
Email: socabc@gmail.com
We have monthly BDSM parties with all kinds of kink. Tie up a hot guy and do whatever you want with him, as long it is safe, sane and consensual! We provide a safe space to explore your fantasies. All limits are respected. We still encourage sex to be part of a BDSM scene, and safer sex is strongly encouraged to prevent the spread of STD's. 

Fri March 21
The Lair's Freaky Friday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under March 7)

Sat March 22

​AvatarLA Presents: Submit Dungeon Party
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
Sanctuary Studios
avatarla.org

Sun March 23

SoCalGroupTime Presents:  Silverlake Sunday Afternoon Load Exchange!
2:00pm-4:30pm  
socalgrouptime.com/event/silverlake-march23
Email:  admin@socalgrouptime.com
Sunday afternoon group for some hardcore play - DL, curious and gay men looking for a good time with like-minded guys.  Space is limited - there is a porn room and another playroom with extra porn playing, and always a good vibe... Sling, bed, premium lubes, music, porn, bottled water, and small clean-up towels are provided.  Super easy parking and access to the house.  Always a friendly and growing crowd.  Space is limited to 25 guys, so RSVP before it's full.  
 

Sun March 23
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under March 2)

Sun March 23
LAX Jacks (Jack off club)
5:00 pm - 7:30 pm
DTLA
laxjacks.com

Wed March 26
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
(see details under March 5)

Thurs March 27
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(See details under March 6)

Fri March 28
SoCa Bondage Club Play Party
Date changed to Fri March 21.

​Fri March 28
The Lair's Freaky Friday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under March 7)

Fri March 28
DenLA Presents: Unite!

The Official Dance and Play Party of Leather Weekend
10:00 pm until late
DTLA warehouse location (NOTE: DenLA is NOT at Sanctuary this month.)

$50 includes open bar
DenLAPresents.com
DenLA is LA's hottest, exclusive, private, Euro-style dance and play party just for men. Where you can throw on your hottest gear, dance to the sickest beats and have an awesome time playing in the backrooms, beds, and slings with no holds barred sex and camaradarie. Clothes check available. DJ in the house!

Sat March 29
SoCalGroupTime Presents: West Covina/Walnut Men's Group
2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 
socalgrouptime.com/event/w-covina-saturday-march29/
$25 donation
Email: admin@socalgrouptime.com
Very popular group!  Saturday afternoon group for DL, curious and gay men looking for a good time with like-minded guys.  Come to play not to watch, please!  There are 2 main porn and playrooms and a good vibe is promised...  Dark room, fuck tables, sling room, and more...Premium lubes, music, porn, bottled water, and small clean-up towels are provided.  This group is mild to wild, but please come to play and not stand around waiting for action - you guys make the action happen!  Clothes MUST be checked, with no exceptions. Super easy parking and access to the house.  An outside area is available for socializing but all play must be inside the home. Space is limited guys so be sure to RSVP before it's full. Doors close at 5:00pm - no exceptions!

Sun March 30
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under March 2)

Sun March 30
LAX Jacks (Jack off club)
5:00 pm - 7:30 pm
DTLA
laxjacks.com

APRIL 2025

Tues April 1
LAX Jacks (Jack off club)
7:00 pm - 9:30 pm
DTLA

laxjacks.com

Wed April 2

SoCalGroupTime Presents: Special Event - Long Beach Lunch Group
12:00 pm- 3:00 pm  
socalgrouptime.com/event/long-beach-4-2
Email:  admin@socalgrouptime.com
A one-time event.  Hot tub/play party in a private home in Long Beach - come over, kick back, and enjoy a hump-day extended lunch break. Open to all guys who are looking to relax and enjoy the company of like-minded men looking for some fun.  2 playrooms will be inside for your "play time" - please, NO outdoor play, plus a sling set up. Bottled water and clothes check bags provided. You must RSVP to attend and space is limited. Bring a towel if you plan on soaking in the tub.  Premium lubes and small clean-up towels will be provided. Space is limited and this group always fills fast!

Wed April 2
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
Canoga Park
Donation: $20 (Special student discount available). Pay at the door: cash, Venmo, Zelle, or CashApp.
Email: TheLairPlayground@gmail.com
IG:  The_Lair_Playground
Guys! The hottest new party in town is twice a week and getting it on in Canoga Park!  Hang with guys 18 yo to 55 yo. All types from twinks, jocks, bear, muscle and dads are welcome! Condoms, lube, and snacks provided. Free clothes check - larger lockers for rent. Come get down in a 1,500 square foot warehouse space and fuck to the beats of Dance/Top 40/House/Rave. Street parking only! Please be respectful of our business neighbors - exercise discretion when arriving and leaving event. Email us for address and password.

Fri April 4
LAX Jacks (Jack off club)
12:00 noon - 2:00 pm
DTLA
laxjacks.com

Fri April 4
CumPlayLA
8:00 pm – 1:00 am
Sanctuary Studios new location: 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tiokets: cumplayla.com/events
$30 Online for Members
$35 for Non-Members (Cash or Card at door are ok)
This is a great, fun, no attitude party! Feel the beats while you slide into the large rooms and enjoy the event. Be sure to arrive early for all the hot action. This is an 18+ Event! ID required to enter. Entry includes free clothes check and gives you access to multiple large play rooms. 

Fri April 4
The Lair's Freaky Friday
8:00 pm - midnight
Canoga Park
Donation: $20 (Special student discount available). Pay at the door: cash, Venmo, Zelle, or CashApp.
Email: TheLairPlayground@gmail.com
IG:  The_Lair_Playground
Guys! The hottest new party in town is twice a week and getting it on in Canoga Park!  Hang with guys 18 yo to 55 yo. All types from twinks, jocks, bear, muscle and dads are welcome! Condoms, lube, and snacks provided. Free clothes check - larger lockers for rent. Come get down in a 1,500 square foot warehouse space and fuck to the beats of Dance/Top 40/House/Rave. Street parking only! Please be respectful of our business neighbors - exercise discretion when arriving and leaving event. Email us for address and password. 

Sat April 5
Moonburn All-Male Spank Party
Noon - 5:00 pm
New Location: Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
$15
email for more info: lamoonburn@aol.com
RSVP encouraged (but not required) at Sanctuary's website: sanctuarylax.com
The Moonburn Assn. has been having M/M spank parties for more than 25 years on the first Saturday of every month! We usually have more than 50 guys show up - guys of all ages, sizes, backgrounds, sexual orientations and levels of experience. Some come to spank, some come to get spanked, some come to watch and some come to meet other guys to arrange private sessions. Soft drinks, water, snacks served. Street parking only. 

Sun April 6
Red Hanky Club’s Fisting-101 workshop
5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Tickets starting at $30
RedHankyClub.com
The workshop date has been rescheduled to April 6th with tix on sale one month prior. Watch our website or these emails for when that occurs and tell your curious or new friends!

Sun April 6
LAX Jacks (Jack off club)
5:00 pm - 7:30 pm
DTLA
laxjacks.com

Wed April 9
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
(see details under April 2)

​Fri April 11
The Lair's Freaky Friday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under April 4)

Sun April 13
LAX Jacks (Jack off club)
5:00 pm - 7:30 pm
DTLA
laxjacks.com

Tues April 15
LAX Jacks (Jack off club)
7:00 pm - 9:30 pm
DTLA
laxjacks.com

Sun April 20
Red Hanky Club (fisting)
5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tickets $30 + $4.97 fee 
redhankyclub.com
Email info@redhankyclub.com 
Red Hanky Club meets the third Sunday each month. Bring your toys and lube and we’ll supply refreshments, slings, fuck benches and a great environment to play with your fellow pigs! A shower for touch-ups only is on site if you bring a towel and shower wand.

Sun April 20
LAX Jacks (Jack off club)
5:00 pm - 7:30 pm
DTLA
laxjacks.com

Fri April 25
SoCa Bondage Club Play Party
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
910 N La Cienega Blvd, Los Angeles
$20 for members of SoCal Men's Bondage, $25 for Non-Members
www.SoCaBondage.com
Email: socabc@gmail.com
We have monthly BDSM parties with all kinds of kink. Tie up a hot guy and do whatever you want with him, as long it is safe, sane and consensual! We provide a safe space to explore your fantasies. All limits are respected. We still encourage sex to be part of a BDSM scene, and safer sex is strongly encouraged to prevent the spread of STD's. 

Sun April 27
LAX Jacks (Jack off club)
5:00 pm - 7:30 pm
DTLA
laxjacks.com

Tues April 29
LAX Jacks (Jack off club)
7:00 pm - 9:30 pm
DTLA
laxjacks.com

MAY 2025
Fri May 2
CumPlayLA
8:00 pm – 1:00 am
Sanctuary Studios new location: 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tiokets: cumplayla.com/events
$30 Online for Members
$35 for Non-Members (Cash or Card at door are ok)
This is a great, fun, no attitude party! Feel the beats while you slide into the large rooms and enjoy the event. Be sure to arrive early for all the hot action. This is an 18+ Event! ID required to enter. Entry includes free clothes check and gives you access to multiple large play rooms. 

Sun May 18
Red Hanky Club (fisting)
5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tickets $30 + $4.97 fee 
redhankyclub.com
Email info@redhankyclub.com 
Red Hanky Club meets the third Sunday each month. Bring your toys and lube and we’ll supply refreshments, slings, fuck benches and a great environment to play with your fellow pigs! A shower for touch-ups only is on site if you bring a towel and shower wand.

JUNE 2025

JULY 2025

AUGUST 2025

Aug 18-25
CMEN West Coast Gathering

Summer Camp for Nude Men
cmen.regfox.com/cmen-southern-california-gathering-2025
Varying prices depending on length of stay and type of accommodation.



 

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