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  • Wed April 24 SoCalGroupTime Presents: Pomona Men's Group  - Lunch and Evening Groups
  • Sun April 28 SoCalGroupTime Presents: Silverlake Sunday  - Late Afternoon and Evening Groups
  • Drain Your Nut Day & Night Groups April 27
  • Drain Your Nut Bator Group April 28
  • Fri April 19 DenLA Presents: Spring Sploosh!
  • Several dates for Blackout Social have been added.
  • LA Spot has added nine events!

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APRIL 2024
Thurs April 4

Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys Upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!


Fri April 5
CumPlayLA
8:00 pm – 1:00 am
Sanctuary Studios new location: 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tiokets: cumplayla.com/events
$30 Online for Members
$35 for Non-Members (Cash or Card at door are ok)
This is a great, fun, no attitude party! Feel the beats while you slide into the large rooms and enjoy the event. Be sure to arrive early for all the hot action. This is an 18+ Event! ID required to enter. Entry includes free clothes check and gives you access to multiple large play rooms.


Fri Apr 5
Blackout Social
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
Los Angeles (near Century & Vermont)
$20
blackoutsocial.com
A private butt-naked event with a chill, laid-back vibe for Black men. Guests fully undress at the door. Clothing is bagged, labeled, and placed in a secure area. No cell phones allowed. Condoms and lube provided. Open bar.

 

Sat April 6

Moonburn All-Male Spank Party. 
Noon - 5:00 pm
New Location: Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
$15 
email for more info: lamoonburn@aol.com
The Moonburn Assn. has been having M/M spank parties for more than 25 years on the first Saturday of every month! We usually have more than 50 guys show up - guys of all ages, sizes, backgrounds, sexual orientations and levels of experience. Some come to spank, some come to get spanked, some come to watch and some come to meet other guys to arrange private sessions. Soft drinks, water, snacks served. 


Sun April 7
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party! 


Thurs April 11
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under April 4)


Fri April 12
SoCalGroupTime Presents: Silverlake Friday Night Breeders

Back for One Night Only!
7:00 pm - 10:00 pm 
$25.00 donation 
RSVP link:  socalgrouptime.com/event/silverlake
Email:  admin@socalgrouptime.com
Friday night BB group for DL, curious and gay men looking for a good time with like-minded guys. There are 2 playrooms and a good vibe. Premium lubes, music, porn, bottled water, and small clean-up towels are provided. Can be difficult neighborhood parking but lots of side streets in Silverlake so just plan ahead. Very mixed crowd. Space is limited to 30 guys so be sure to RSVP before it's full. It's a hot time for those who enjoy some man-on-man fun! Must RSVP to get QR entry code.


Sat Apr 13
Blackout Social: Nightcrawlers
11:00 pm - 4:00 am
Los Angeles (near Century & Vermont)
$20
blackoutsocial.com
A private, underwear-optional event with a chill, laid-back vibe for Black men. Guests undress at the door. Clothing is bagged, labeled, and placed in a secure area. No cell phones allowed. Condoms and lube provided. Open bar.


Sun April 14
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under April 7)


Sun April 14
The Nook Inc, LA presents: Cream Sundae 
9:00pm to 1:00am 
Downtown Los Angeles 
$25 Venmo, Cash App, Zelle and Apple Pay at the door
IG @ The_NookIncLA
X (Twitter) @TheNookIncLA
Email: TheNookIncLA@gmaiul.com
Join us for the Cream Sundae Sex Party. This is a hot night of hot and steamy sex. Please contact us on social media or email if interested. Please include face/body pics with your message. Sex appeal is a requirement. The Nook Inc L.A. is a safe space created for gay/bi men to fulfill their sexual pleasures, fantasies and desires. 


Thurs April 18
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under April 4)

 

Fri Apr 19
Blackout Social
11:00 pm - 5:00 am

(see details under April 5)


Fri April 19
DenLA Presents: Spring Sploosh!
10:00 pm - 4:00 am
DTLA Warehouse. Address sent to ticket holders day of the event. $50 includes open bar
DenLAPresents.com
Dance & play in a downtown LA warehouse! DenLA is LA's hottest, exclusive, private, Euro-style dance and play party just for men. Where you can throw on your hottest gear, dance to the sickest beats and have an awesome time playing in the backrooms, beds, and slings with no holds barred sex and camaradarie. Clothes check available. DJ in the house! 


Fri April 19
The LASpot: Magnum-X
11:00 pm - 4:00 am
$20 all night
Private location in South LA
theLASpot.com
A private invite only man2man nude social party for sexy, fit black men only! 


Sat April 20
The Nook Inc, L.A. The 4/20 Experience Sex Party 
10:20pm-4:20am
Downtown Los Angeles 
$25 Venmo, Cash App, Zelle and Apple Pay at the door
IG @ The_NookIncLA
X (Twitter) @TheNookIncLA
Email: TheNookIncLA@gmail.com
Join us this Saturday for The 4/20 Experience Sex Party. B.Y.O.W-Bring Your Own Weed and cum have a high, good time with us. (Marijuana smoking allowed for this event only-No other substance.) Please contact us on social media or email if interested. Please include face/body pics with your message. Sex Appeal is a requirement. The Nook Inc L.A. is a safe space created for gay/bi men to fulfill their sexual pleasures, fantasies and desires. 


Sun April 21
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under April 7)


Sun April 21
Red Hanky Club (fisting)
5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tickets $30 + $4.97 fee redhankyclub.com
Email info@redhankyclub.com  Twitter: @RedHankyClub
Red Hanky Club meets the third Sunday each month. Bring your toys and lube and we’ll supply refreshments, slings, fuck benches and a great environment to play with your fellow pigs! A shower for touch-ups only is on site if you bring a towel and shower wand.


Sun April 21
The Nook Inc, L.A. 
FWB-Friends With Benefits Sex Party  
9:00 pm - 1:00 am 
Downtown Los Angeles 
2 Friends $30 (must arrive @ the event together for discount), 1 Individual $25
Venmo, Cash App, Zelle and Apple Pay at the door
IG @ The_NookIncLA
X (Twitter) @TheNookIncLA
Email: TheNookIncLA@gmail.com
Join us this Sunday for the Friends With Benefits Sex Party. Bring a friends and let’s have some fun. Please contact us on social media or email if interested. Please include face/body pics with your message. Sex Appeal is a requirement. The Nook Inc L.A. is a safe space created for gay/bi men to fulfill their sexual pleasures, fantasies and desires. 


Wed April 24

SoCalGroupTime Presents: 

Pomona Men's Group  - Lunch and Evening Groups
12:00pm-3:00pm & 6:00pm-9:00pm 
socalgrouptime.com/event/pomona-2
Email:  admin@socalgrouptime.com
Monthly group for DL, curious and gay men looking for a good time with like-minded guys.  There are multiple porn and playrooms and a good vibe...  Premium lubes, music, porn, bottled water, snacks, and small clean-up towels are provided.  Super easy parking and access to the house.  Always a friendly and growing crowd.  Space is limited to 25 guys so be sure to RSVP before it's full. 


Thurs April 25
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under April 4)

 

Sat April 27
SoCa Bondage Club Play Party
1:00 pm - 5:00 pm
910 N La Cienega Blvd, Los Angeles
$20 for members of SoCal Men's Bondage, $25 for Non-Members
www.SoCaBondage.com
Email: socabc@gmail.com
We have monthly BDSM parties with all kinds of kink. Tie up a hot guy and do whatever you want with him, as long it is safe, sane and consensual! We provide a safe space to explore your fantasies. All limits are respected. We still encourage sex to be part of a BDSM scene, and safer sex is strongly encouraged to prevent the spread of STD's. 


Sat April 27
Drain Your Nut 6: Two Events
Day Group 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Night Group 8:00 pm - midnight
Duarte, CA (2 minutes from the 210 freeway)
Tickets and more info: www.drainyournut.com $25 early bird tickets (limited), $35 regular ticket, $50 double header ticket, $60 weekend pass. 

Back by popular demand! Drain Your Nut is a pop-up event that takes place in unique industrial spaces in Southern California and attracts hot and horny guys who like fuck in a group setting with NO PNP. Multiple playrooms plus a big warehouse space with slings and glory holes. Projected porn, large play mattresses, fuck benches, rim seats. Clothes check, bottled water, snacks, premium lubes, rubbers (for those who use them), and small clean-up towels provided. Easily accessible location for guys in the SFV, SGV and Inland Empire areas. Only 30 minutes from downtown LA. Free and easy parking on site.
DAY GROUP
For married/bi/DL & gay guys who enjoy fucking around with other men. Laid back vibe, casual daytime event for horny dudes looking to fuck. First timers welcome. Friendly and approachable crowd
NIGHT GROUP
Leather & Fetish Gear Encouraged
Get piggy at this warehouse fuck party where fetish gear is encouraged and sluts are celebrated. Slings, fuck benches, porn, and tons of horny guys ready for hot and sweaty group play. Gangbang orgy in an industrial warehouse. 

 

Sat Apr 27
Blackout Social: Nightcrawlers
11:00 pm - 4:00 am

(see details under April 13)


Sat April 27
The LASpot: Black Nubian X
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
$20 all night
Private location in South LA
theLASpot.com
A private invite only man2man nude social party for sexy, fit...black men only! 


Sun April 28
Drain Your Nut - Bator Group
2:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Duarte, CA (2 minutes from the 210 freeway)
$20
Tickets and info: www.drainyournut.com
This is a group for bators: guys who like to stroke their cocks with other guys and bond as they build up intense sexual energy. No fucking allowed, this is for solo bating, or mutual touch, body contact. Bond with other guys while your cocks throb and you enjoy an extended bating session. Poppers OK. No Alcohol. No PNP. Free clothes check, plus premium lube, projected porn, clean up towels, and bottled water provided.


Sun April 28
SoCalGroupTime Presents: 

Silverlake Sunday  - Late Afternoon and Evening Groups
2:00pm-5:00pm & 6:00pm-9:00pm 
socalgrouptime.com/event/silverlakesunday
Email:  admin@socalgrouptime.com
Monthly group for DL, curious and gay men looking for a good time with like-minded guys.  There are 2 playrooms and a good vibe...  Premium lubes, music, porn, bottled water, and small clean-up towels are provided.  Can be difficult neighborhood parking but lots of side streets in Silverlake so just plan ahead.  Very mixed crowd.  Space is limited to 30 guys so be sure to RSVP before it's full.  It's a hot time for those who enjoy some man-on-man fun! 


Sun April 28
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under April 7)

 

MAY 2024

Thurs May 2

Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys Upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!


Fri May 3
Blackout Social
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
Los Angeles (near Century & Vermont)
$20
blackoutsocial.com
A private butt-naked event with a chill, laid-back vibe for Black men. Guests fully undress at the door. Clothing is bagged, labeled, and placed in a secure area. No cell phones allowed. Condoms and lube provided. Open bar.


Fri May 3
The LASpot: Magnum-X
11:00 pm - 4:00 am
$20 all night
Private location in South LA
theLASpot.com
A private invite only man2man nude social party for sexy, fit...black men only! 


Sat May 4
Moonburn All-Male Spank Party. 
Noon - 5:00 pm
New Location: Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
$15 
email for more info: lamoonburn@aol.com
The Moonburn Assn. has been having M/M spank parties for more than 25 years on the first Saturday of every month! We usually have more than 50 guys show up - guys of all ages, sizes, backgrounds, sexual orientations and levels of experience. Some come to spank, some come to get spanked, some come to watch and some come to meet other guys to arrange private sessions. Soft drinks, water, snacks served. 


Sun May 5
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party! 


Thurs May 9
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under May 2)


Sat May 11
Blackout Social: Nightcrawlers
11:00 pm - 4:00 am
Los Angeles (near Century & Vermont)
$20
blackoutsocial.com
A private, underwear-optional event with a chill, laid-back vibe for Black men. Guests undress at the door. Clothing is bagged, labeled, and placed in a secure area. No cell phones allowed. Condoms and lube provided. Open bar.


Sat May 11
The LASpot: Black Nubian X
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
$20 all night
Private location in South LA
theLASpot.com
A private invite only man2man nude social party for sexy, fit...black men only! 


Sun May 12
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under May 5)


Thurs May 16
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under May 2)


Fri May 17
Blackout Social
11:00 pm - 5:00 am

(see details under May 3)


Fri May 17
The LASpot: Magnum-X
11:00 pm - 4:00 am

(see details under May 3)


Sun May 19
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under May 5)


Sun May 19
Red Hanky Club (fisting)
5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tickets $30 + $4.97 fee redhankyclub.com
Email info@redhankyclub.com  Twitter: @RedHankyClub
Red Hanky Club meets the third Sunday each month. Bring your toys and lube and we’ll supply refreshments, slings, fuck benches and a great environment to play with your fellow pigs! A shower for touch-ups only is on site if you bring a towel and shower wand.


Thurs May 23
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under May 2)

 

Sat May 25
SoCa Bondage Club Play Party
1:00 pm - 5:00 pm
910 N La Cienega Blvd, Los Angeles
$20 for members of SoCal Men's Bondage, $25 for Non-Members
www.SoCaBondage.com
Email: socabc@gmail.com
We have monthly BDSM parties with all kinds of kink. Tie up a hot guy and do whatever you want with him, as long it is safe, sane and consensual! We provide a safe space to explore your fantasies. All limits are respected. We still encourage sex to be part of a BDSM scene, and safer sex is strongly encouraged to prevent the spread of STD's. 


Sat May 25
Blackout Social: Nightcrawlers
11:00 pm - 4:00 am

(see details under May 11)


Sat May 25
The LASpot: Black Nubian X
11:00 pm - 5:00 am

(see details under May 11)


Sun May 26
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under May 5)


Thurs May 30
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under May 2)


Fri May 31
The LASpot: Magnum-X
11:00 pm - 4:00 am
(see details under May 3)

 

JUNE 2024

Sun June 2
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party! 


Thurs June 6

Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys Upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!


Fri June 7 and 21
Blackout Social
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
Los Angeles (near Century & Vermont)
$20
blackoutsocial.com


Sun June 9
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under June 2)


Thurs June 13
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under June 6)


Sat June 15 
Blackout Social: Nightcrawlers
11:00 pm - 4:00 am
Los Angeles (near Century & Vermont)
$20
blackoutsocial.com


Sun June 16
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under June 2)


Thurs June 20
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under June 6)


Fri June 21
Blackout Social
11:00 pm - 5:00 am

(see details under June 7)


Sun June 23
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under June 2)


Thurs June 27
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under June 6)


Sat June 29
Blackout Social: Nightcrawlers
11:00 pm - 4:00 am

(see details under June 15)


Sun June 30
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under June 2)


JULY 2024


Fri July 5

Blackout Social
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
Los Angeles (near Century & Vermont)
$20
blackoutsocial.com


Sat July 13
Blackout Social: Nightcrawlers
11:00 pm - 4:00 am
Los Angeles (near Century & Vermont)
$20
blackoutsocial.com

Fri July 19
Blackout Social
11:00 pm - 5:00 am

(see details under July 5)


Sat July 27
Blackout Social: Nightcrawlers
11:00 pm - 4:00 am

(see details under July 13)

 

AUGUST 2024

​Aug 18-26
CMEN West Coast Gathering
www.cmen.org/west-coast
Varying prices depending on length of stay and type of accommodation. Big discounts if you book before Feb 28, 2022.
For over 20 years, hundreds of men gather for this annual naked event. Heated swimming pool, heated dormitory-style cabins, tent sites, modern restrooms and hot showers, and miles of hiking trails. The gathering features a variety of workshops, numerous seminars, aerobics, hiking, massage, playshops, other activities, and of course, just being with over 300 friendly, naked men! Also popular are the daily themed social hours. The West Coast Gatherings also feature at least two shows each evening, including game shows, talent shows, and special performances. The Miss CMEN Queen contest and the Mr. Leather CMEN contest, which determines CMEN’s candidate for International Mr. Leather (IML). After the evening shows, activities include dancing most nights, night swimming in the pool, night hikes, movies, cards, bingo and late night workshops.

  • Webmaster's notes: this is NOT a clothing-optional event. CMEN emphasizes that this is indeed a naked gathering. 
  • The event is nine days, but you can customize your length of stay.
  • In the past they offered day passes, but I don;t knwo if that is happening this year. I will update once I find out.


 

 

 



 

 







 

 

 

 
 
 
 
 

 

 

 
 

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